This Advent reflection invites us into a profound truth: joy is not found in controlling our lives, but in surrendering them. Drawing from Matthew 2 and the contrasting responses to Jesus' birth, we discover that King Herod was threatened by the announcement of a new king, while the Magi were overcome with joy. The difference? Herod clung to his own reign, while the wise men welcomed Christ's rule. This ancient story mirrors our modern struggle—we often want Jesus as a consultant or advisor, someone who makes helpful suggestions we can accept or reject. But authentic joy flows only from recognizing Jesus as King over every area of our lives. The message challenges us to examine where we're holding back, where we're squeezing Jesus into convenient spaces rather than making genuine room for His lordship. Through the imagery of the Magi's costly journey across dangerous deserts, we're reminded that making room for Christ requires intentionality and sacrifice. The call to literally bow this week and pray 'Jesus, you are my king and I am yours' isn't just symbolic—it's an embodied acknowledgment of a spiritual reality. When we participate in bringing heaven to earth, working alongside God to make His kingdom visible in our daily interactions, finances, relationships, and choices, we discover a joy that transcends circumstances and results. This is the joy the angels proclaimed, and it belongs to those who stop protecting their autonomy and embrace His reign.